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Slave Training FAQ

Q: Do you ever take on submissive men who are looking for long term servitude or need to be trained in an ongoing fashion?

A: Sometimes. A lot of men *think* that relinquishing complete control of their lives to Me and becoming My slave sounds ideal, but when that fantasy begins to become a reality, they realize they are in way over their heads.

Q: Do you utilize a “Consensual Slavery Contract”?

A: With the individuals who complete an appropriate petitioning period, and that I choose to take on for long term training and servitude, I do utilize a contract. Each contract is specifically tailored for each individual. Just as no two people are alike, there is no “one size fits all” slave contract, at least not in My world.

Q: What if I’m not ready to commit to a long term contract?

A: Then don’t inquire about it silly. Request a session.

Q: Do you allow submissives to enter into shorter term contracts with You?

A: If I feel like it, yes. If the stars align correctly and I think that it would be beneficial to both parties, I do consider putting eager subbies under contract for periods of 24 hours at a time, a month at a time, or a year at a time. But again, every situation is different, so the criteria for which these arrangements are accepted is non standard.

Traits I Find Sexy in A submissive

One of my vanilla friends recently was asking me what on earth I found sexy about submissive men. Clearly, she “doesn’t get it”.

I tried to describe the physical and mental rush I get when engaging with a truly wonderful and fun submissive male. While I don’t think she’s convinced (yet) I do think that she’s a bit more open to it after I described the two traits I value most in a sub that I play with.

1. Honesty.

Not honesty as in I need to know every last detail down to his social security number, but honesty as in sharing with me his most hidden self, that no one else gets to even know exists. I love keeping delicious secrets, and sharing a special bond with someone that few (if any) other people are able to share.

2. A Willingness to Please

Now don’t jump the gun and start telling me how good you are with your tongue! That’s actually an instant turn off for me. I mean to please me with good manners, thoughtfulness, and service- be that domestic service, offering your body as a canvas, or participating in either my chosen debauchery of the moment or in one of my various projects.